It’s that time of year again—Grindr Unwrapped! I look forward to it every time, because I want to see what’s been trendy in the gay scene this year, check if I’m behind the times, or discover new kinks and interests I might dare to explore in the new year. Or maybe I’ll choose a fresh place to chase a new crush—heading off to those overseas gay meccas for a bit of cruising. Our vibrant, diverse, and yes, a little risqué gay social culture data—those “hottest,” “trendiest,” and “kinkiest” spots—how have they evolved over the past year? Allow me to break it all down for you cuties!

As the world’s most popular gay dating platform, Grindr has once again released the highly anticipated 2024 GRINDR UNWRAPPED, THE GAY YEAR IN REVIEW. Let’s take a peek at the social data to discover all the spicy, hot, and interesting things that happened in our gay men’s community this past year!

1. Hottest Men of the Year: Heart-Pounding Male Idols

From top-tier TV stars to the hottest musicians, the “Hottest Man of the Year” list is stacked with men who leave us gays totally gagged and wanting more. Are they the object of your fantasies or ahem your go-to jerk-off material? Whether you’re into rugged men or youthful, boyish idols, they’re all here—check to see if your crush made the cut! Unsurprisingly, Pedro Pascal takes the crown this year—his mysterious bravery as The Mandalorian plus that sexy South American flair? Yes, queen, I’m totally down to ride him! Anyone who’s ever watched certain vids knows just how wild Latino men can be!

2. Top Tracks & Albums: Let the Music Set You Free

Music is the soul food of our gay men’s community. The “Song of the Year” and “Album of the Year” lists span everything from pop divas and edgy male icons to fresh new artists—both virtual and real. From EDM bangers to gentle ballads, these tracks have made our nightlife and road trips way more fun. Some album titles might be inspired by quirky fan-fiction, but that only adds to the joy—who doesn’t love a cheeky inside joke? Our taste in music is just as diverse, so which song or album was your pick of the year?

3. Tour Extravaganzas: Did You Snag Your Tickets?

“Tour of the Year” showcases our unwavering passion for live performances. From global superstar tours to epic collaborations, whether you’re losing your mind over Taylor Swift’s “The Eras Tour,” counting down the days to Madonna’s comeback, or fantasizing about a Troye Sivan and Charli XCX collab, these shows took over every convo and ticket queue this year. Which ones did you go to? I caught Taylor twice!

4. A Kaleidoscope of Gay Desire: 2024 Grindr Unwrapped on Tops, Bottoms, Vers & Sides

This year’s Unwrapped takes a deep dive into the juicy core of our sexual dynamics, with data that’s both mesmerizing and oh-so-telling. That lines up perfectly with our everyday lives, since we’re always down for some spicy, sexy talk! From the global distribution of Tops, Bottoms, Vers, and Sides to cultural labels like Daddies, Twinks, Bears, and the oh-so-provocative “Hung Bottoms,” it’s all out in the open. Just hearing these terms is more intriguing than any mainstream news broadcast, and my imagination’s already rolling out a whole gay porn scene. Whether you flip-flop between a commanding Top and a submissive Bottom—or claim that versatile sweet spot—this data shows there’s definitely someone out there whose vibe matches yours. Or maybe it’ll spark some wilder ideas for you in the new year? Feet, suits, or group fun—go off, sis!

1. 5 Countries with the Highest Top Ratio: Jordan, Greece, U.S., Singapore, Peru
   If you’re a starving Bottom or Vers always on the lookout for a Top, these countries are basically calling your name—just clean that peach, pack some lube and your PrEP, and hop on a plane. Jordan, Greece, the U.S., Singapore, and Peru have the highest concentration of bold, can-do Tops, ready to sweep you off your feet—or pin you to the wall for some unforgettable, heart-pounding action. Are you ready, girl? Let’s all head there together! Or is this for real? Friends living in these places, spill the tea!
2. 5 Bottom-Bloom countries: South Africa, South Korea, Japan, Vietnam, Denmark
   Picture enjoying the amazing food and sights in Vietnam, South Korea, or Japan, all while being adored as a prized Bottom. Denmark offers more than fairy tales—The Little Mermaid’s got nothing on a Danish romance. South Africa, meanwhile, has plenty of muscular hotties who’d throw a party just for Bottoms, leaving you breathless. If you’re a power Top, pack your suitcase; your dick might be so busy you’ll be popping Viagra just to keep up!
3. 5 Vers-Packed Countries: Finland, Austria, Germany, Australia, & Hungary
   Nordic open-mindedness meets German revelry and Aussie flamboyance—these countries are heaven for versatile folks. Whether you want to top today and bottom tomorrow, or just switch roles in neon lights, this is the best of both worlds for exploring every angle of your desires. If you’re that guy who loves both sides of the orgasm, hit up these countries and find your bliss! In my next life, I’ll definitely come back as a Vers—I want to feel all the climaxes, from the tip to the prostate!
4. 5 Countries Leading the Side Revolution: Singapore, Philippines, Japan, New Zealand, Australia
   Sides are reinventing intimacy by ditching the focus on anal—think oral, caressing, and frotting. Singapore and the Philippines lead the pack, highlighting the richness of Asian gay culture. New Zealand and Australia boast sun-kissed, big-bodied cuties who can turn foreplay into the main event. To the Sides on Grindr, please don’t bug me—I’m not menopausal just yet, hon!
5. 5 Countries Embracing Fem Tops: U.K., Ireland, U.S., Australia, Mexico
   Who says Tops have to be super masc? These countries celebrate Fem Tops—maybe a bit sissy, but still bringing that top energy. The U.K., Ireland, and the U.S. top the charts, with Australia and Mexico following close behind. If you’re into that “girly” or fierce-yet-sweet Top vibe, get yourself to one of these places and find your perfect “femme #1.” Shouting “Fuck me, sis!” or “Mama, fuck me!” while a Fem Top goes to town is peak sisterhood, babe!

1. Top 5 Daddy Destinations: U.S., Australia, Trinidad & Tobago, Venezuela, Canada
   Into that MenAtPlay vibe with suited-up Daddies? Craving the tender guidance only a Daddy can provide? The U.S. is your ultimate Daddy stronghold. Australia’s got sun-kissed, chocolate-toned surf Daddies who’ll have you weak in the knees, while Trinidad & Tobago, Venezuela, and Canada are also brimming with mature, charismatic men ready to fulfill your every desire. Throw on a leather jacket and boots and let’s hit the town—I’ll serve you some Daddy-style surprises tonight.
2. 5 Must-Visit Twink Destinations: Netherlands, Switzerland, Belgium, U.K., Brazil
   A dreamy combo of European sweetness and Brazilian heat, these countries are brimming with Twinks—fresh-faced, slim, and absolutely adorable. From the playful charm of the Netherlands to the fiery flair of Brazil, these Twinks bring an irresistible blend of innocence and allure. Come on, nobody can fully resist youthful energy in bed, right? Wave after wave of excitement, honey!
3. 5 Global Bear Hubs: Greece, U.S., Ireland, Trinidad & Tobago, South Africa
   If you’re all about big, burly, raw, and fabulously furry, then the Bears in Greece, the U.S., Ireland, Trinidad & Tobago, and South Africa are here to take you on one wild ride. Picture hooking up with a rugged, hairy hunk on a sun-drenched Greek island or in a cozy Irish pub—each Bear exudes a raw, magnetic energy that’ll leave you intoxicated. Give me a big hug and slap my butt, ‘cause I’m all about them Bears!
4. Global Hung Bottom Hotspots: France, Canada, Germany, Brazil & Switzerland
   Just hearing “Hung Bottoms” sends shivers down the spine: guys who are both well-endowed and ready to bend over. France, Canada, Germany, Brazil, and Switzerland have men who not only come with major equipment but are also 100% committed to that Bottom life. These Hung Bottoms blend devotion and desire, enough to make any Top’s pulse race. Do you have a big-dick fetish, honey? What’s the biggest you’ve topped so far?

1. 2024’s Top Gay Sex Positions: What’s Heating Up the Bedroom?
   As expected, missionary still reigns supreme, followed closely by hitting it from behind, and then there are plenty of folks who love a good 69! Which do you prefer? Personally, I’m all about that backshot—it gives my prostate the best kind of thrill.

5. From ‘Feet’ to ‘Dom’: Inside Grindr’s Wildest Tag Searches in 2024

If sexual roles are the broad strokes, social tags dig into those deeper, hidden desires that make every encounter unique. Here’s a snapshot of the hottest tags fueling our fiercest online hunts:

(1) Most Commonly Displayed Grindr Tags: Discreet, Bi, FWB, Kissing, Oral

• Discreet: Keeping it hush-hush? Many want their private lives on the DL. Rumor has it the more someone insists they’re discreet, the wilder they are in bed.
• Bi: Embracing bisexuality and crossing gender boundaries. You lucky folks get the best of both worlds!
• FWB (Friends with Benefits): That no-strings fun. It sounds so professional, like a Wall Street term for “steady sex buddy.” How many FWBs do you have?
• Kissing & Oral: Sweet, romantic foreplay that sets the stage for full-on fireworks. Are all these guys Sides? Why does it seem like Sides are everywhere now?

(2) 2024’s Hottest Grindr Tag Searches: Hung, Trans, BB, Dom & Feet

• Hung: One word—huge. Many of us are all about the size. Which gay boy doesn’t love a big one? Even if you can’t take it, you can at least enjoy the view!
• Trans: Transgender partners are in high demand, and we’re celebrating every colorful shade of identity.
• BB (Bareback): Raw, no-condom fun—thrilling but risky, so please remember to stay on PrEP!
• Dom: People who crave total control and power play. “Come here, you dirty slave!” Don’t forget to grab some kink and fetish wear and gear from our shop.
• Feet: Anything from foot massages to straight-up foot worship. I’m so into big feet and sheer socks on a suited-up Daddy—stop talking, I’m already hard!

(3) Top 5 Feet Fetish Hotspots: Italy, Germany, U.K., France, Israel
Dreaming of tasting someone’s feet or indulging in foot worship? Italy and France are famously irresistible—Italy especially, for the second year in a row! I knew it, you gorgeous Italian men. Meanwhile, Germany and the U.K. reveal their drool-worthy feet the moment socks come off. Israel is also a shining star for foot lovers, so you’ll never feel alone with your kink. I’ve even heard some people like getting their backdoor teased by a big ol’ foot—talk about next-level play!

6. Open Relationships & Nudes: From Nude Swaps to “Don’t Send Me Your Salad”

Beyond sexual roles and tags, this Unwrapped edition explores where open relationships thrive, where nude exchanges are most rampant, and which regions hold onto their conservative values. For American gay men, these insights not only serve as spicy dinner conversation but also guide your journey through more—or less—spontaneous encounters.

(1) Open Relationship Hotspots: South Korea, Switzerland, Germany, Netherlands, Denmark
• Who would have guessed that South Korea tops the list for open relationships? It makes you wonder if K-pop is making them even hotter than we ever imagined. Switzerland, Germany, the Netherlands, and Denmark, known for their progressive, cutting-edge cultures, naturally embrace non-traditional relationship styles. If you’re into non-monogamy, these destinations let you explore mutual passions and even welcome a thrilling third partner. Maybe more people get even more satisfaction this way—who knows? On that note, what’s the biggest group you’ve ever joined?

(2) Top Nude-Swapping Nations: U.S., Finland, Australia, Canada, Norway
• The U.S., unsurprisingly, leads the pack—showing off our bold willingness to expose, flaunt, and share. Meanwhile, Nordic countries like Finland and Norway suggest a hot, steamy vibe hidden beneath those frosty exteriors. Australia and Canada, blessed with gorgeous landscapes and equally gorgeous populations, provide the perfect backdrops for revealing your most authentic, naked self. Dude, sure, being nude is scorching hot on its own—but adding a few sexy accessories might level up your game even further! Come check out our gay lingerie and gay underwear to take that excitement to new heights!

(3) Least Nude-Swapping Countries: South Africa, India, Italy, Cambodia, Jordan
• That classic line, “In front of my salad?” captures the more conservative attitudes in these places. People here often want a genuine connection or some meaningful buildup before baring it all. This doesn’t mean they lack sensuality, but they tend to prefer real conversations or at least a date or two before trading nudes. Then again, some say the more conservative a region, the wilder folks are behind closed doors—and do Italians send more foot pics than nude shots? You tell me!

7. Annual Gay Idols: From “Mother of the Year” to “Babygirl”

Mother of the Year
• Here we’ve got Charli XCX, Lady Gaga, Beyoncé, and other pop divas. Whoever dominates the list as the gay community’s most adored icon essentially claims the crown as “Mother of the Year.”

Babygirl of the Year
• Troye Sivan, Shawn Mendes, Lil Nas X, and other younger stars get stamped with the “Babygirl” label—adorable yet irresistibly sexy, fueling our collective crush. And come on, Troye Sivan totally deserves it—he was so deliciously naughty in “Rush,” talk about stirring us up!

8. Erotic Highlights: 2024’s Porn Star of the Year & Top Foreplay Picks

Porn Star of the Year
• Which gay adult film actors or OnlyFans creators rocked our worlds this year? As expected, the winner is TYLER WU. Have you watched his gay porn? Maybe it’s someone you’ve been secretly subscribed to, turning your digital fantasies into sizzling reality. Who did you pay for? And whose videos left you totally spent? By the way, how much have you dropped on OnlyFans in 2024?

Favorite Foreplay Activity
• From kissing and oral to rimming, hand play, and frotting, these options racked up votes. A commanding 37% said “Kissing” is a must, proving that even the wildest night isn’t complete without that first romantic lip-lock. Which do you like best? I’m all about being rimmed by my Top! I’m thinking of making a rimming tutorial, TBH.

GAY GASP of the Year
• Hands down, it has to be the Paris Olympics—specifically the French pole vaulter Anthony Ammirati. His massive dick smacked the bar mid-vault, costing him the jump, but it sure made him the talk of gay men everywhere! Now that’s one tourist attraction we’d all line up to see in France.

9. Gay Travel & Hottest Gayborhoods: Roaming & “Gayborhood”

Most Roamed to Destination
• New York, London, Paris, Miami, Los Angeles—no surprises here. Whether it’s for famous parties, vibrant nightlife, or the gorgeous sights and diverse communities, NYC and LA feel like home turf, while European cities bring that exotic twist. Where did you go in 2024? Did you snag any steamy hookups along the way?

Gayest Gayborhood
• Soho (London), Chueca (Madrid), WeHo (Los Angeles), The Castro (San Francisco), Le Marais (Paris)—these iconic gay hotspots offer everything from rowdy nights out to cozy rainbow-lit evenings. Friends from around the globe can let loose and be fully themselves. Planning to hit any of these on your next trip? Grab your best gay buds, sisters, or brothers and head out together!

10. Snarky Culture: Best Read & “Why Are You Gagging?”

Our gay community is famous for its wit and razor-sharp tongue, and “Reading” is at the heart of Drag culture. The “Best Read” list celebrates those celebrity or Drag Queen clapbacks that live on in our memories. Phrases like, “They really ate you up,” remind us of the brilliance of well-placed shade—and that we should enjoy the show while still staying respectful. Are you one of those mean gays? Are you a fan of aaron­goldyboy?

A Feast of Curiosity and Desire: Final Thoughts on Our 2024 Gay Year in Review

Exploring the full Grindr Unwrapped rundown uncovers the most enticing aspects of our community. From wide-ranging sexual roles that open a world of possibilities, to revealing tag preferences that expose our secret cravings, and the fiery waves of open relationships and nude-sharing that set our desires ablaze—every stat leaves your heart racing and your imagination running wild. And of course, our love for pop culture and our favorite stars is yet another honest, fearless expression of who we are!

For American gay men, take a moment to reflect on your own journey:
• Are you a Bottom blessed with a “hung” package, or a Side who’s all about the art of frotting?
• Do you find yourself searching for “dom” or “feet,” ready for new kinky adventures?
• Maybe you and your partner are already rocking that open relationship, spicing things up with a thrilling third—or more?

Whatever your answers, these rankings and stats portray a bolder, more varied, and desire-driven gay community. Embrace self-discovery and respect for others as we build a vibrant, exciting nightlife and future together. After all, who you do, how you do it, and what you do are all fearless pieces of being unapologetically you!

Data can change, but our proud rainbow hearts stay strong—and so does our lust for men, honey. Let’s step into a more dazzling tomorrow armed with this cheeky, creative year-end recap. With you around, gay culture never fades. Enjoy the ride, fellas! And tell me, which tantalizing tag are you itching to try in 2025—or where are you off to next?